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Acceptance Of Inferiority (Waiting To Be Chosen?)
It has occurred to me that many of you out there are "settling" with the women you're currently able to attract. I look at one of my best friends that I grew up with, and he settled on a mediocre girl after accepting that he wasn't in the same league as the types of women that he wanted.



I look at several seduction community guys and the women they successfully pick up and sleep with, and they settle on ugly to mediocre women. And finally, the last straw, a guy I work with said that he would never want a very hot girl in fear of losing her, so he settles on something less.

I know that there are those out there that teach you to accept the types of women that are choosing you, but my question for you is why? Why settle for anything less than what you want? Why are you settling for women that you wouldn't give the time of day if given a choice between them and better looking women?

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I don't understand why any guy would simply settle. Do you not understand the signals you are sending to your brain when you sleep with women that you really don't want to be sleeping with? It absolutely DESTROYS your confidence. You say to yourself "oh, I can't have this or that type of girl, so I better be happy with someone less desirable". And do you know what happens when you say things like that to yourself and settle over and over and over again? You begin to act on it.

Pretty soon, you will only bother hitting on the lesser attractive women. Pretty soon, when the type of woman you want to be with does come on to you, you somehow manage to sabotage it because you don't believe that you deserve her. And pretty soon? Pretty soon you doom yourself to undesirable women, and it is of your own doing; your acceptance of inferiority.

Do you wanna know the secret to what kept me going, how I managed to pull some of the best looking women? I dated the most desirable women in grade school, and when I came to college and the only women coming after me were fat and/or ugly women, I refused to accept, refused to settle on anything less than the types of women I had been accustomed to.

That is the only difference between you and I. If I would have settled, I'd be with a woman that I didn't truly desire just like many of the men out there. Striving for higher, for something better, is what makes one grow. And without it, once you settle, stagnation takes place and you never achieve what you want. YOU CAN BE WITH ANY TYPE OF WOMAN THAT YOU DESIRE, AS LONG AS YOU NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS.

However, you need to take a deep honest look at yourself, and realize why you aren't attracting the types of women that you desire, and make the necessary changes. I literally had to rip myself up, and rebuild myself from the ground up: who I was, how I dressed, my attitude, EVERYTHING. It wasn't easy, wasn't easy at all. It took me YEARS to get where I am today.

Sure, it was only a small change here, a small change there, but that didn't matter. I knew what I wanted, and I knew exactly what I had to do to get there, and most important of all, I knew it wouldn't be easy.

And I face this same dilemma today. I don't want the one night stands. I don't want the club sluts. I don't want the superficials. And I know better than to settle for anything less than what I want. I know it won't be easy. And I know that the changes that must take place begins with changing the self.

You need to ask yourself what it is that you want, and NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER settle for anything less. Societies losers settle for whatever fate may hand them, while the winners create their own destiny. You can either accept what is given, or take what is yours. Power isn't something that chooses you, but it is something that you seize. How that relates to women? I'll leave that for you to figure out...
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